My name is Jessamyn West. I was elected Justice of the Peace in Randolph Vermont on November 6, 2012. My term started February 1st, 2013 and lasts for three years. Do you need a Vermont JP?
More information on what a VT Justice of the Peace does (pdf)
second ceremony - text
(copied straight from my notes)
2:45 – GET DAVE AND MARCIE TO TELL PEOPLE TO SIT DOWN
3:00: Samantha Becker and Steven Augustus would like to thank you all for being here with them today, and for supporting them through everything that it has taken to make this day a reality. Thanks everyone from coming from such distances and everyone who helped decorate this home and themselves for this special day. It’s a pleasure to have you here to celebrate with them in their home.
We are gathered here today to witness the marriage of these two people, Samantha & Steve, who stand before you, their beloved friends, family and neighbors in trust and love, with hope and wishes.
They ask us all to be present with them and to rejoice in their companionship and their love.
A formality but also a foundation. A legality but also a labor of love. A partnership but also a pair-bonding. Even for two people who have shared their lives as long and as deeply as Steve and Samantha have, marriage is in some ways the next step and in many ways the natural extention of their lives together, lives already shared with Davin, Theo, and Abby, the journey they have already been on.
On this day of your marriage, you stand within the charmed circle of your great love and the greater circle of those who love you.
- Reading 1 - Buffy from Corinthians
- Reading 2 – Kari from Shakespeare
Samantha to Steve – repeat after me
I Samantha take thee Steve to be my husband, my lover, my madman, my poet, my bear.
For better or for worse
for richer or poorer
in sickness and in health
in disagreement and harmony
for all the days of my life.
Steve to Samantha – repeat after me
I Steve take you Samantha to be my spouse in our civil marriage
to have and to hold from this day on
for better, for worse
for richer, for poorer
to love and to cherish forever
or all the days of my life.
Will you Samantha have Steve to be united as one in your civil marriage?
Will you Steve have Samantha to be united as one in your civil marriage?
Steve will you now place the ring on Samantha’s finger and repeat after me please?
I give you this ring as a symbol of my love. I choose you.
Samantha will you now place the ring on Steve’s finger and repeat after me please?
I give you this ring as a symbol of my love. I choose you.
By the authority vested in me by the voters of Randolph & the state of Vermont, I pronounce you husband and wife. You may now celebrate with your first kiss as husband and wife. Congratulations.
Please join Frank/Lee, Marcy/Keith, Dwight/Arlene and Danny/Kari and Anne in the receiving line.
first ceremony - text
Thank you all for coming…. We are gathered here today to witness the marriage of these two people, Rich & Rachel, who stand before you in love, in trust, in joy and in hope. They ask us to be present with them and to rejoice in their companionship and their love.
Love is not meant to be the possession of two people alone. It serves as a source of common energy, as a form in which you find the strength to live your lives with courage. It’s the original perpetual motion machine once you set it going. Its energy sustains families, communities and ultimately the world. It’s a great thing you’ve got here. From this day onward, you will come closer together than ever before; you will carry on loving one another in sickness and health, for better and for worse, when you’re close and when you’re far away.
Your love also gives you the strength to stand apart, to seek out your unique destinies, to make your special contributions to the world. It is a thing which is always part of us… and more than us. On this day of your marriage, you stand within the charmed circle of your great love and the greater circle of those who love you.
- Reading 1 Rich Fairbanks (personal recollection)
- Reading 2 Rachel Westbook (Falling in Love is like Owning a Dog by Taylor Mali)
- Reading 3 Seth Westbrook (excerpt from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin, by Louis de Bernières)
- Reading 4 Jessamyn West (Union by Robert Fulghum)
Please repeat these vows after me
I, _____________, take you, ______________, to be my wife/husband.
I give you my hand and my heart.
I pledge to share my life openly with you and to speak loving truth to you.
I promise to respect and honor you, care for you in tenderness, support you with patience and love, and walk with you through all the seasons of our lives.
Will you Rich Fairbanks have Rachel Westbrook to be united as one in your civil marriage?
Will you Rachel Westbrook have Rich Fairbanks to be united as one in your civil marriage?
[to guests/friends/family] Do you promise to support Rich & Rachel, to give them the wisdom of your counsel, the loyalty of your heart, the fairness of your mind and the walking of their dogs?
By the authority vested in me by the voters of Randolph & the state of Vermont, I pronounce you husband and wife. Congratulations.
voting, now and then
The JP job has a lot more to do with voting than marrying. That is, if you don’t want to, you don’t really have to marry anyone, but part of the gig is checking voter registrations, being present at the polls, delivering ballots to people who can’t be at the polls, and counting write-in votes.
I’ve been digging through the pile of paperwork I got at the Board of Civil Authority meeting (a board I was not on when I went, but I am on now) and it’s mostly straightforward stuff. I’m surprised, as always, just how much of this stuff really is codified and written down. Only sort of related, I found this book on Open Library that talks about how soldiers voted when they were off fighting the Civil War. Sort of interesting if you’re nerdy about this sort of thing. If you, too, are interested check out Voting in the Field, a forgotten chapter of the Civil War.
Since it is now February I am now a Justice of the Peace. Feels mostly the same so far. I’ve amended the header text on this blog. I can now marry anyone who wants to be married in the State of Vermont. From the Board of Civil Authority meeting last night it appears that the majority of my time will be spent counting write-in ballots after Town Meeting next month.